This Dead-Simple Principle Is The Fastest Way To Improve Your Relationships: Drop Your Pants First

The quality of your relationships is mainly defined by two things:

• Mutual Level of Trust
• Mutual Level of Honesty

In any kind of interaction one of your main goals is

To Not Get Hurt

A deep routed mechanism that is trying to protect us from earlier feelings of betrayal and hurt. If you meet someone new you are always looking out for signs that signify trustworthiness. But we tend to also keep our guard in relationships that we have had for a long time already.

Essentially it is an eternal game of cat and mouse.

Show me that you trust me, then I trust you

One have to simplest and fastest ways to deepen existing relationships and open up new ones, is to

Trust First

And the best way to do that is to let down your own guard and

Drop Your Pants First

Figuratively speaking you show, that you’re naked too, and that being naked and vulnerable is fine.

Nothing fosters trust more than showing yourself vulnerable.

Nothing has impacted my relationships romantic as well as human interaction in general as this insight.

Or to extend the famous quote:

“Sing like no-one is listening,

trust, like you have never been betrayed before”

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